Saturday, December 19, 2009

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letter to Santa Claus tale


too, this year I wrote my letter. It 's the letter of a citizen. Many consider it a bit 'naiff, others too feel-good. For me, there are two appreciations.
Dear Santa,
this year, in time of crisis, I ask you to give me an inexpensive gift. This is a simple word. I would like to disappear a word much used in everyday language.
know what it's called in Italy the political party that loses the election? Opposition. It is assumed that whoever loses the elections has as its fundamental task is to oppose.
would be nice to think that whoever loses the election to recognize the winner and work with him for the common good. You seem a crazy idea?

When Italy ruled some Prodi, the political part of his antagonist, that Berlusconi has never had the strength, courage and honesty to say "the majority of voters wanted Prodi , Prodi is our President ", rather, unlikely he feared electoral fraud. Then he opposed any government action, in any way trying to ridicule this poor Prodi.
when he ruled that Berlusconi, the music was the same in many ways even more violent. Do you think that in recent days, Mr Berlusconi has been hit in the face by a guy who has thrown in the face of a heavy object that has fractured nose and several broken teeth.

me this gift Santa Claus, make sure that whoever loses the next election is no longer called "opposition".
Make sure that whoever loses the next elections know say that the opponent has won its president and that he will work because the reasons of the minority have a voice in government.
Make sure that the candidates do not consider themselves opponents nor enemies, but simply antagonists.
So, dear Santa Claus, make sure that whoever loses the next election we should not longer be called "opposition".
do not know how well you do.

Friday, December 18, 2009

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African


In view of Christmas, an African tale.
concerns once again "just to cheer" (See group on Face Book Those who support only for ).
The message of the tale suggests the limits of their look and how wonderful the other distinctive features to be put to good use.

An old African woman had two large pots, each hung ends of a pole which she carried on her shoulders. The vessel had left a crack, while the other was perfect, and was always full of water at the end of the long walk from the village stream, the cracked pot arrived only half full.

For two years this went on, with the woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water.
Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its achievements.
But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been done.
After two years that he realized its bitter failure, one day he spoke to the woman along the way:

"I am ashamed of myself because this crack in my side causes water to leak all the way to the village. "
The old woman smiled, "Did you notice that there are flowers on the left side of the trail, but not from that other vessel?
's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, You watered them.
For two years I was able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the village. If you had not been as you are, we would not have those beauties.

Monday, December 14, 2009

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If you asked for it! And now which is not the victim.
was more or less repeat the phrase that they loved the fascists, Fascist squads, when they had to justify their cowardly attacks on unarmed political opponents.
These days it is unfortunately the echo resounded.
marked twenty years of fascism, like it or not, the Italian culture, not just the right, the culture as a whole.
In society we have not yet top of the hill the logic of the corporations so dear to the beam; in economics we are far from overcoming protectionist nepotistic towards the logic of an open market so unpopular with the beam, the civic and national level is still based largely on rhetoric Italic (I've already written in other posts) ordered by the beam, the political debate is still based on the demonization of the enemy to beat. "
If you add to this rhetoric, this all left, the figure of the rebel, the picture is complete.
is within this framework that should be read in the attack against the head of government, but above all it must be read in this context that some public statements and in particular those of Di Pietro and Rosy Bindi, "If you asked for it! And now that face the victim! " Unfortunately, this is the meaning of their statements.
This reckless and violent behavior by these two politicians (Bindi is the president of PD, sic!) That autoriducono grotesque caricatures of the role (if they were harmless, I would say caricatures), there is unfortunately in some strata of society , not only for youth, and manifests itself in large part on the network. After
vaffaday nobday and, finally comes a day in favor of something or someone to Tartaglia. This state of affairs
detrmina the need of politicians normally sensitive and responsible to distance itself and condemn the aggression "without ifs and buts." In any other country where she was assaulted the democratically elected head of government, the sentence would be so obvious and predictable that we would focus only on human solidarity and closeness. They say it is the attitude of Bersani. Well.
If you think a country where the prevailing sense of community, respect for democratic rules, the primacy of the individual on the role of individual responsibility, we think of a country to come.
There is a long way to go.
must start again from the nursery.

Saturday, December 12, 2009

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Extracomunitari distributed by the nursery? Let's give him the "you". The heroism of normality

Repubblicaweb there on this beautiful testimony of a fellow citizen of our color.
makes you think.
I thought of a "small gesture" to travel the first inch of the way of respect, a condition for real integration: Have you ever noticed that the immigrants, when you spoke to him, you give the "you"? Can we stop.
's testimony.

I'm Italian and I have black skin. A black Italian, as I was told the passport control of the airport in Boston by African American security officers. But you have no idea what it means to be Italian and have black skin just in the Italy of 2009?

I understood when I go to City to Milan to request a certificate and produce my passport or my Italian identity card, without even the official check my documents, but only looked at him, still requires my residence permit means a document that no Italian citizen possesses. I remember an occasion when, in a decentralized branch of the City of Milan, an official was surprised that I could get the Italian identity card and called to help two other colleagues noticed that leaving the people in line to the respective branches. Their conversation went something like this.
"He gave me his Italian identity card but says he has no permission to stay. How is that possible?".
"How did you get an identity card, if you do not have a permit to stay there ... you know? Where did you get this document? Understand Italian? "." I do not have permission to stay, "I simply respond.
The document issued by the municipality (and in the hands of three officers of the City) was printed" Italian citizen "but they continued to focus only on my black face, as people lose patience in waiting.

Why not read what is written on paper? "I suggested. Moment of surprise, but .... I finally gave of her. "She is an Italian citizen? Why did not he say so? We are not accustomed to seeing an immigrant ...".

objection would seem to have some sense but instead, to cut short, I emphasize that they are now an Italian citizen, I feel the answer sentences like this: "You have an Italian passport but you're not Italian." Or, with a smile: "You do not have the Italian nationality as us, you only have Italian citizenship because you are extra.

When I lived near Viale Piave, Milan central area, it happened to me that evening while I was opening my car and I was holding the keys to a person approached me and asked why I was opening a peremptory tone that car . Instinctively I replied: "Because I'm stealing! Call the police immediately." And the executioner, displaced, which is not stayed away.

On another occasion in Milan at eight in the morning in a high traffic avenue, while my companion cut inadvertently led the way for a woman on the motorcycle. It 'ran down to make sure the wretched state. I took the wheel to move the car and leave the traffic at rush hour. Another woman (white) in the tail fell from his car and ran towards my friend (white) spreading panic and told her: "While you're here looking, you're an immigrant stealing the car." "It's not a thief, he is my companion, he was told.

Every time I moved, I had to face a sort of rite of passage. At first, I greet with a smile crossed the tenants in the hall for the event: "Hello!" or "Good evening." With the young everything runs smoothly. While adults are more suspicious. I can also understand them until they ask me if I live there, because it is the first time we meet. But I remain blown away when I am responding to the greeting phrases like: "Do not buy anything. You can not sell." "Who made you come in?".

In September this year I was with my son 12 years with him and waited for the arrival of the subway station to gym. As always, the speaker urged passengers not to exceed the yellow safety line. An elderly gentleman called out my son: "They talk with you, boy. You have exceeded the yellow line. You know that here is prohibited beyond the yellow line ... rude." I pointed out that my elder son was out of the yellow line but he continued to rant: "You should not even be in this country. ... Go home you scum of the world.'ll Pay sooner or later."

few weeks ago I went into Linate airport newsstand to buy a newspaper. There was a young officer tattooed all over, I approached him and told me to pay another chest open. I paid and I started toward the exit when the young officer he started yelling at the cashier: "That man of color has paid the newspaper?". The cashier replied shouting: "Yes, the black man has paid." Returning back to say: "There is no need to shout in this way. He as well while I was paying. "She looked at me right? You know who you're talking about? I look good! You know what they are? She realizes what is this?. "He tried to intimidate me." A racist! "I said." Yes, I am a racist. Be very careful. "" You're an idiot, "I replied.

those who live this everyday situations for more than 25 years and eventually accept them, pretend nothing happened to live without going crazy, or it can become suspicious, sullen, full of "prejudices on the other hand, often on tenterhooks with the risk of confusing situations and see racists emerge from all parties, to lose their heads and shouting and swearing in the crowd. And the perpetrator who has the knife the handle, calmly says using a "formula" fixed but very effective, "Look, is screaming to me is insulting. He is only a guest in my home. You are all witnesses ...".

I attended the event for the representation of a band to Aguzzano, near Piacenza. When almost everyone had left I saw a square in the middle of the Italian flag on fire without a reasonable explanation. I was careful not to turn it off even though I was close. What would think or how people would react seeing an "extra" in a village square with the Italian flag on fire in his hands? Too many symbols together. I left the flag burning pace of all. But I have infinitely

appreciated the conduct of the police presidium Metro Piazza Duomo in Milan. I did not want to get to work late and I was running around people. Suddenly I was grabbing and shoving behind. I found myself facing a young policeman in uniform that I yelled to hand over the documents. I gave my ID card to the already furious policeman who, without opening it, he ordered me to follow him. Once at the police station, told his colleagues: "This extra acts as a bully."

Luckily my explanations were not denied by linking this to the facts. The police carefully check my documents and after they concluded that their young colleague had wrong to offer their apologies. They were also sorry for being late to work.

After all, I have the impression that, compared to most people, the police do not seem abnormal finding himself in front of an Italian citizen with black or brown leather. "We're not used to!", We hear anytime, anywhere from nine out of ten people. It 'an excuse that no longer holds that after thirty years we live and work here, we get married with Italian / Italian, we mixed the children or not, that grow and are educated in schools and Italian universities.

A shocking fact is when three years ago I was attacked by four controllers Atm in Milan and ended up in the emergency room. Even today I am addressing processes, but with the controllers as victims and I as a defendant. One thing is certain, I still have faith in Italian justice.

Thursday, December 3, 2009

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In an Italian city there is a bar.
Inside the bar there is a pool table.
Place the pool, four people playing bottles. Others are around to watch and make a few comments from time to time.
often speak in dialect or any dialect with a strong cadence.
If you talk politics, are competing to see who is more "against". They are used all the clichés as corny to declare against. Who against immigrants, accused of making the mob, who against judges, accused of making policy.
Remind them that the immigrants pay, on average, the taxes of the Italians, there is not anything for them, the extra words, and clandestine underworld are almost synonymous. Remind them that judges now put on the grill by Berlusconi are the same that made "clean hands", disintegrating at the time the ruling party (DC and PSI) and thereby opening up space for his advent in politics, it produces only discomfort.
The race between them comes down to who is and who is most antimagistratura antiimmigrazione.
They have a broad political representation in the League and in much of the PDL.

Next to the bar, there is another local wine shop. Inside
tables apparently homemade, but fine. The environment is friendly, yet elegant. You do not scream, it whispers. The atmosphere is one of the tavern, the price to Chez Maxime.
do not talk dialect, but an Italian wanted.
The diners, while denying it, you feel enlightened. They are convinced to be an elite.
If they talk about music, do not allude to Tiziano Ferro and Laura Pausini, no, too popular. They hear chants boring, but original: they must stand out. If they speak of television, do not allude to the best-known programs, no national-popular too, can draw up to a few episodes of Ballarò, but also on what they have to say. Sometimes they mention the last film with Polish subtitles in French. Not the film excites them, excites them to talk about the fact. In a
Montalcino and Sassicaia, talking about the rally against Berlusconi, according to them, should resign. The fact that the majority of voters, aware of the legal problems of the same, they have voted for them does not matter: the rules of democracy are valid only when their side wins.
their newspapers on the table (the most common in Italy), almost entirely devoted to the legal problems of the Premier, argue that in Italy there is no press freedom.
not understand that their position is not the majority. Consider who has a position different from theirs or in bad faith or ill-equipped.
Some of them, illuminatissima seized by intuition and benevolent, he says, but I also know good people who voted for Berlusconi! But vah?!? His goodness.
They have a wide representation in the political left, Di Pietro, a large part of the PD, from his former secretary, Dario Franceschini.

Faced with two rooms, they spend a lot of people. Normal people, who have no prejudice against foreigners, nor magistrates, that those who believe that the majority of votes must be able to govern.
Among them, some voted for Veltroni and then appreciated the early months of the Berlusconi government, especially when compared to the misery of the government that preceded it.
Some of them try to talk shyly with those of the bar, but is measured with a sense of vulgarity, meanness and arrogance that suggests not to continue the conversation.
Others try to have a chat with the enoteca. The result is no better: only six of those who do not understand them, look at you with distrust and a sense of pity. The atmosphere of totalitarianism.

Those loops have no desire to cry out against the magistrates, against immigrants, against a head of government. They want a policy that represents them, that combines hospitality, justice, respect for democratic rules. Do not cry, they prefer to listen to. But they have not much to listen: they have no political representation, even though lately, some voice rises: D'Alema, Casini, Fini, Napolitano. Voices seem less and less shy.
They are for the possibility of an extra chance of success in our country, is to give the possibility for judges to do their duty, are to ensure the ability to rule by those who enjoy the majority consensus.
These simple people, go back to their families, watch TV, listen to a song by Tiziano Ferro and Laura Pausini, gladly pay the contributions to the foreign caregiver and try to live their lives without being prisoners of the dogmas of their grandparents.
They are the heroes of normality.
If so critical at this stage of life of our country will be exceeded, will be mainly thanks to their faith and their patience. They have one hope: that intolerance remains confined to the vulgar intolerance snooty wine shop and bar.

Sunday, November 29, 2009

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U n couple of weeks ago, I gave a talk (with his friend Giampiero Gelman) at the Politecnico di Milano, on the topic of talent management enterprise.

Giampiero and I have highlighted as an interpretation of humanistic leadership and, in general, a humanistic attitude, can facilitate effective talent management.

One participant asked right then:

as ever in Italy, where it dominates the humanities, there are few companies with an effective talent management?

Question in the sense unexceptionable.

response, I tried to highlight how the reasons are manifold, but mostly I tried to dismantle the idea that an attitude prevails in Italy-style humanism.

When it comes to humanistic attitude, usually means an attitude based on certain values:

  • optimistic view of human nature
  • exercise of individual freedom, especially in the autonomy of opinion
  • strong sense of individual responsibility.

One who is widely considered the father of humanistic psychology, Maslow, speaks extensively in his works, particularly in the book Toward a Psychology of .

I it seems that the dominant culture in Italy is based on other values. At the conference, which I mentioned, I have proposed, in particular two, that nothing, absolutely nothing to do with the humanistic attitude, indeed, if ever, deny:

  • familism
  • rhetoric.

Malsopporto so much rhetoric that often Italian, following post provocative in this sense, in which exaggerate the challenge, I was criticized for not to love Italy and Italians, and someone I said if you do not like Italy You can also go .

I understand, but I do not have freely chosen to be born in Italy, I found there.

It 's true, I do not see us to say love Italy, I love Italians . A sentence like that is not mine, I would live to, precisely as rhetoric. But I love Italy and Italians, is this: is the place where I was born, are the people I grew up with. For this reason, it disturbs me to see this country move forward with the handbrake on. It upsets me to see a country repress his talents to adhere to his vices, particularly those of family and rhetoric, in fact.

What are the effects of a culture focused on these two values?

familism leads inevitably to search every field in the vicinity of ' friend of a friend and to remove the unknown. To protect the door in the family, clan, the consortium, and to discredit the current (sometimes discriminate) the non-belonging, is different.

familistic In the culture containing the germ of the benefit that becomes favoritism becomes Rate of exchange that can become, ultimately, the Mafia. In the culture familistic also contains the seeds of intolerance, dell'insofferenza to the different, ultimately racism.

Italian mafia and racism we actually know something, I think.

With this reality, what we really count? Very little on the edge of nothingness. Why?

Here replaces the second value of our culture: the rhetoric.

We Italians, good people with a heart of gold, we never hurt anyone, that we would hurt a fly, a nation of saints, poets and navigators, as we might have lead to some 'mafiosetti and a bit' racist?

rhetoric prevents us from coming to terms with our history and our collective behavior and to really build up our national identity.

Yet the Italians at the beginning of last century, we have been protagonists of the use of weapons of mass destruction (gas in this case) against poor defenseless people of North Africa, taking the total international isolation.

We have continued during the Fascist period, with the helpless people Eritrean.

We have also seen fit to support our ally in the Nazi extermination of Jews, homosexuals and gypsies, even enacting the infamous racial laws in Italy.

With that, we come to terms? We did, as did Germany, a profound examination of conscience? We have recited the mea culpa ? No, certainly not enough. Why? but because we Italians, people with heart in hand, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah ..... vabbeh it is true, we were allied with the Nazis, but in the end we were good. This is the sense of rhetoric.

Today, with this rhetoric, we closed his favor? No, not at all. In many Italian stadiums will hiss and insult black players. But it is only by typhoid are girls of color Balotelli ... The player is usually the chorus apostrophised 're just a nigger nigger and the only reaction you get is that some commentators are outraged because it is true that Balotelli is black, but he is Italian (sic).

When Qaddafi in recent months, came to visit in Italy, as part of the sacrosanct arrangements of permanent peace and end of each dispute, strongly desired by the Prime Minister, was the outrageous (to the right and left) the very idea that Gadhafi could speak to the Senate. Qaddafi had affisa the jacket picture of a Libyan martyr, who died during the war of resistance to the Italian colonial. Well, right and left, became the scandal of defining what that character, not a freedom fighter, but a antiitaliano (sic) In those days, the newspaper Libero titrated A Bedouin al Quirinale . At the time there was no black facet perhaps shame.

vabbeh But, come on, is the colorful language of the Italians, good people with heart in hand.

In this country, no supporting documents to a foreigner (which also applies to secure a U.S. or Japanese?) Is considered a crime comparable to the crime of mafia association and terrorism. Yes, but you know, are the Northern League, good people, hard workers, people colorful ......

One could go on and on. I bring my own personal battle, but often provocative, to highlight the harmful effects of familism and rhetoric, just because I want the good of our country.

It 's a lonely battle? Enough, but not completely.

These days the book was released Negri queer Jews & Co. 's eternal war against the' other Gian Antonio Stella. Try to go beyond rhetoric, to consciousness. Incorporates the themes of his previous The horde, whose introduction provocative title: B el country, ugly people-The removal of a history of light, shadow, shame

Bravo Star, the your voice, much more authoritative than mine, will be heard.

Saturday, November 28, 2009

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Enough with the "illegal"!


not deceive the title of this post.
When I say "illegal" do not mean to people-immigrants, but the word illegal.
Let me explain.
My wife Florence, Kenya, came to Italy a decade ago, equipped with a tourist visa. But the Kenyans (I prefer to say Kenyans, Kenyans do not) can go sightseeing in Italy? Evidently. It 'difficult, they must obtain a thousand documents and records, but even here they can.
scadette When the term of validity of the tourist visa, Florence asked the State Italiota course (I prefer to say Italiot, not Italian) the so-called residence permit.
At that time he worked as a maid in a wealthy family in Genoa, but was not in compliance. He had to wait a couple of years that the bureaucracy Italiot take its course outrageous. For those two years, my wife was, therefore, in the language Italiot current "illegal". Not a stranger to the documents waiting to be regularized, but "illegal".
When he had a job offer from a regular restaurant, the family of well-Genoa where he works, not matched by the last month: he had given notice. He added that if Florence had not asked for monthly paid, would have denounced as "illegal."
Yes, but his case is different! No, the contrary is emblematic: the immigrants who enter without documents in Striptease (written like a real Italian) is one per cent of the total. The rest of the so-called illegal immigrants have stories very similar to the one that had a few years ago Florence.
But if an Italian abroad, the visa expired, would be considered an "illegal" or an alien with documents that are not regular? And if it was treated as an "illegal", as one who had committed a crime, may not occur at the embassy Italiot?
Yeah, but we do not. The only word used, the dominant label, the stigma is: illegal.
why I say: Stop with the "illegal"! Enough of this word used inappropriately. The
Striptease is a racist country ever. Giovanni Gentile, Minister of Culture of the fascist government of Mussolini, to dismantle this image and this awareness, it launched a communications program called "Italians, good people." Initiative was very effective and the results can be appreciated even today: the belief that Italians are good people, dilutes the awareness of the racism of many attitudes and behaviors. An example: the insults to the black players in Italian stadiums? Folklore.
In the bill of the process short, the League has proposed that it was quote-imposed between serious crimes (including terrorism and mafia) also to illegal immigration. Steps to be considered a crime (for me this does not pass either, but for nothing), but is considered a crime comparable to that of terrorism or mafia, than the most perverse Nazi fantasies.
I feel that the League has withdrawn the proposed amendment to the budget that he wanted to differentiate the use of redundancy payments for employees of firms in difficulty, based on their ethnicity. People used to say 'kindness to them. "
note with surprise that the same rules and languages \u200b\u200bthat offer discriminating racially, are the same that is most indignant to the idea that schools can not be crucified. I'm afraid for them to be crucified a symbol of ethnic rather than religious. I think that migrants would Jesus have something to say about it. Certainly would have invoked their forgiveness. I do not deny it, I do some 'hard work.
For me, the only true illegal immigrants are the League of Parliament of the Republic. Until the parliament will see players, our Republic will continue, for me, to be called "Italian".

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

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Leadership & Talent


Leadership and talent: two issues on which there is a lot of attention for a long time in business.
What is the connection between leadership development and talent management?
These two issues can strengthen each other, provided that it takes a certain conception of leadership and talent.
must overcome the idea that leadership is concerned solely with the leadership roles, as we must overcome the idea that talent includes only talented people, the "special" people, precisely the so-called "talent."
If you adopt a humanistic conception of leadership, it turns out that it is not a result of an intention (I want to express leadership), but is itself an effect, the effect of relations based on the promotion of growth of others. If we orient ourselves to the growth of others, the effect will be that our leadership, over time, will be recognized.
But we can use as a lever to raise the rest? The most powerful lever in my opinion is just helping others to get in touch with their talent and finalize it.
The head then becomes an individual and finalization of the talents of people and his staff, accepting the challenge of growth, they end up expressing leadership. So the pattern is reversed
: if up to now, the leadership was seen as an exclusive competence of the leader who knew the outlines of the "right people" of talent, the leadership of tomorrow will be a common responsibility and the head will basically complement and finalize the talents of employees toward a common project.

Saturday, November 21, 2009

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still on VS and FOR


again on the dominant culture of the VS and the timid voices of the culture of PER. The Chronicles
policies these days tell us about the proposal of the "short trial" and the ensuing controversy.

On the one hand, those who remember that Berlusconi has the slopes with justice and how this law would help him. They are against Berlusconi of being their fundamental identity.
other hand, those who remember that Berlusconi has been elected democratically and should thus be encouraged in its efforts to head of government. They are the judges of being "politicized" their fundamental identity.

These "biased against" have in common the same attitude: who is more VS is the purest, others are contaminated.
They also share the obviousness of their arguments: the benefits that would process short by the premier and the fact that he was elected democratically, there are political arguments, facts are obvious, banal platitudes.
The facts, however, if you want to advance in practice, not to be thrown against each other, should be managed. But managing them is harder and more complex, throwing is easier and simpler.

Voices from the pack? Voices that seek to go beyond the V, to the FOR?
few, but something you feel. Two particularly noteworthy. Pier Ferdinando Casini

:
"Everyone will assume responsibility 'and I also say the Democratic Party:' think about it, 'cause on the one hand there is' the breakdown of justice, saving the soul screaming and protesting, the other possibility 'to avoid this breakdown "

Massimo D'Alema:
' There is a antiberlusconismo that strays into a kind of anti-Italian sentiment. This conception of an enlightened elite who lives in a miserable country, and 'the worst approach, subordinate, we can have "

In the land of the Guelphs and Ghibellines, that's something.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

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advice online


gorni In the past, a manager at the head of a sales organization, asked me, online, advice that clearly betrayed his condition as critical as the leader of the group: A tip

fast: When a leader "sees employees divide into small groups and small coalitions at war with each other, behaving like children, thus ruining the harmony of the work ... it must take them all together and say that that will not do, or pretend to do nothing and wait that everything be restored by itself?
I tried with some synthetic rispodere advice.
It seems useful to share with readers of the blog.

Meanwhile
a rule. If you decide to talk to yours, talk to him about you and not them. It is one thing to say "you are children," it is quite another to say "when you act this behavior as a leader I feel frustrated."
In general, however, the situations you describe indicate that some critical deeper:
Everyone is aware of the project your group? It
are involved?
Everyone is aware of the attitude required?
It is clear to everyone (especially you) what each talent brings to the project?
When responses are convinced of it, usually the team works.
I hope I've given you some ideas. Perhaps the simplest and synthetic
advice given to this manager, can suggest a few thoughts to other readers.
I hope so.

Monday, November 2, 2009

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Alda Merini


E 'dead Merini Alda.
I'm not a lover of poetry. Of course, I'm excited reading Leopardi, Ungaretti and other popular poets at a young age.
My relationship with poetry has since been occasional. Leggiucchiate various things here and there.
I then met friends who write poetry, poetry in use in over my work as a trainer it is a training tool of extraordinary power. This helped me not to lose contact with the magic of poetic language.
Of all modern poets that I have, just for different reasons, to explore, Alda Merino is no doubt that more than any other I have touched the soul. Even Ungaretti, although I love, it never managed to penetrate my feeling as Alda Merini: my mind, my body, my soul.

body, scorned gray

scarlet with your cravings,

until I imprisoned?

soul circumflex,

bathed and incapable

soul circumcised,

you do lying in the body?


He sang like no one else I know, no love, what I call (in my book, Leadership and Love) bisognevole in a mixture of despair, awareness and spirituality.


'll wait and each day

I put out little by little

and I forget your face.

ask me if my despair

is equal to your absence

not, is something more:

is an act of death staring

know you do not give.



She sang the wonderful human limitations, with love and awareness.

Only one hand of an angel

intact self, his love for himself,

could

offer the concavity of her palm

because I pour my tears.

hand man living

is too entangled in the wires of today and of yesterday,

is too full of life and plasma of life!

the hand of man can never cleanse

for the quiet weeping of his brother!

And then, only one hand of an angel white

distant roots nourished by the eternal and of immense

may seep serene man confessions

not vibrate at the bottom in a wave of living rejection.


He sang the last hope, dim and powerful at the same time.


Child, if you find the kite of your imagination

tie it with the intelligence of the heart.

You'll rise enchanted gardens

and your mother will become a plant

that will cover you with its leaves.

of your hands makes two white doves

that bring peace everywhere

and the order of things.

But before learning to write

looking into the feeling.


Thanks Alda. Really is not rhetoric continues to live thanks to your poems.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Designer Men's Wallets Sale

The power of simplicity


In recent weeks, I worked with those responsible for marketing the Group Lactalis (Galbani) on the topic of leadership.
We worked on a concept of leadership-style humanist, founded on certain fundamental values, in particular
from self
optimistic view of human nature
authenticity
individual responsibility
E ' was a great experience to discover who among other things as difficult situations, most of the time you can (should) deal better with apparently simple means, away from the language of ipermanageriale which are often misused.
Here are some principles that guided the group has been derived from that experience. I put them readily available as a useful witness.
  • always involves others, will be an opportunity to enrich
  • Work smiling, you will be more peaceful and the other will work better with you
  • From the example with authenticity
  • not point to not make mistakes, but always take the best possible decision
  • Let me see you for who you are, not what you do
  • If you put a label, make sure it is on a board or on a per pack! (And not a person)

Monday, October 26, 2009

Mini Monster Energy Fridge

The work was suicide


Twenty-five people working at the French Telecom have committed suicide within a year and a half, the company is good, it's a pride, the French semi-privatization in 2004 was a success, yet twenty-five people, mostly belonging to the upper classes (managers and engineers 48-50 years), committed suicide.
There is no sufficient reason to justify a suicide if a situation of suffering justify suicide in the camps no one would come alive to the gas chamber. It can not do with a problem a specific company to justify a suicide, but a business problem may be the detonator of a wider malaise. In addition to Telecom
suicide, it should be mentioned those in the center of Renault in Guyancourt 2006-2009 (4 suicides, the last in October), Peugeot-Citroën factory in Mulhouse (6 suicides in 2007) in the group Electricité de France (3 suicides in 6 months in 2007).

This argument seems to be repudiated by the terrible and lucid letter D Michel, the picture executive who took his own life on July 14 last, "they will kill me because of my work in France Telecom. It's the only reason. Urgency permanent work overload, lack of training, disorganization Total holding: because he has completely disrupted and disturbed. I became a wreck, better get it over. " PS: "I know that many people will say that there are other causes (I'm alone, unmarried, without children). Some insinuated that I did not accept getting old. But no, I arranged with all this quite well. The only question is the work. "

What is the job? Sure, it's a way of keeping it is a necessity for some it is a duty to others ennobles man. For many, represents the dark side of life, as opposed to the happy family and leisure.
The work is much more of a necessity. If not, Marx would never have spoken of alienation due to the loss of ownership of the means of production by the people at work.
The loss of ownership of the means of production does not lose money to people, especially the way to lose his job. This is the cause of alienation.
The workers of Ford at the time of the Industrial Revolution, earned more than a craftsman of the time ($ 5 per day, to be exact), but it is reasonable to assume that, while earning more, most were not happy: their work had in fact less so.

Who cares about the fate of people at work should focus on this issue, trying to give concrete answers to the following questions:
  • such as "corporate governance" promote participation by the "working"?
  • leadership models which support the growth of individuals?
  • such organizational models that promote operability do not lose the perception of the value of their work?
Shifting the focus from work as a source of solutions to basic needs, towards the idea of \u200b\u200bwork as a source of self-realization.
This is in my opinion the answer key.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Oriental Table Shower

Leadership

One of the effects of leadership is certainly to involve people and to channel energies around an exciting vision of a possible future.
get this effect would imply for the "leader":
-Have a few key ideas to build a "new world";
-Communicate these ideas with a simple, clear and evocative.
These days you choose the leader of the Democratic Party.
I think it would be very helpful if voters use this policy to express their choice and then domandandassero which of the candidates actually propose key ideas and forward them with a language of "magic words", meaning in plain language, clear and evocative.
I feel that many of the voters are asking instead about who has the most "antiberlusconiano" and skilled in the covenants.
Vote on this basis I think it's the worst that a voter may do service to the cause of his party.


Alessandro Chelo
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Friday, October 16, 2009

Chapped Lips For A Dog

cheer only for


The theme of "culture" of ask -PER, as an alternative to the V- ask me is very expensive.
I think about politics (maybe first), sports, the professions, in general, all social structures, including school and family.
As some know, I set up a Facebook group that is not by chance called Those who support only for , which has raised a total of 140 accessions (http://www.facebook.com/group.php ? gid = 104557427329 & ref = ts).
The theme of culture-PER ask also about the mindset in general, especially the so-called Problem Solving .
On 11 November, at my Area Events Cernusco, his friend Paolo Terni held a day seminar on this topic:

In the early eighties took shape in Milwaukee, at the Brief Family Therapy Center approach "solution-oriented" : born in a completely empirical, its efficacy has led him to be used in coaching and management. The solution-oriented approach can be summarized as a mode of conversation that focuses exclusively on what is, what works, what it can create in terms futuro.In a bit 'more psychological approach oriented solution uses only positive reinforcement, never negative .


During the day that Paul Terni lead at my Cernusco Area Events on November 11, participants will experience the kind of positive reinforcement effectiveness in a variety of activities taken dall'approccio oriented solution - you will be surprised how to cheer only to be not only pleasant and constructive, but also effective in a relational context.


Paolo Terni, author of Coaching Leader - from individual potential to business results, is an experienced coach (PCC ICF) and trainer. He specialized in the U.S. first with Robert Dilts (NLP) and then by Peter Szabo in Switzerland (Solution-Focus), Paolo Terni works as a freelancer in the field of consultancy and training for 12 years in Italy and abroad, both with large groups international with local companies, particularly dealing with the potential development, conflict management, stress management and development of soft skills and self-government.

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

What Is The Approximate Value Of A Silver Eagle

Leading by example

When suddenly the topic of leadership in one of my seminars, I ask the participants what are the behaviors that express more leadership, there is time someone makes a proposal: to set an example.
Today the Constitutional Court, highest organ of state guarantee, declared illegal the so-called Lodo Alfano. I am not among those who cheered the news. I would not have rejoiced if the Court's opinion had been different. Simply take note of it. The theme of protecting the reputation of the highest offices of state is delicate. I do not have the power to express certain views or even scream, let alone to shear judgments. Confirmation of the delicacy and complexity the theme is reinforced by the fact that the Court has expressed its majority. Plus narrow.
I repeat: as I said the elections "Berlusconi is my President", with the same spirit, today I say "the Constitutional Court's opinion is my opinion." If you do not recognize the legitimacy of the outcome of the election and the decisions of the Constitutional Court, I would give the armed struggle. I am not saying paradox. But rather than acknowledge the legitimacy of both.
This attitude makes me feel a good citizen. The President of the Council should lead by example and act calmly take dell'autorevolissima Court's decision and, in homage to what the citizens wanted, of course, continue to lead the Italian government. But chooses otherwise, throw mud on the Court and the Presidents of the Republic which contributed to the appointment of its members, particularly Ciampi and Napolitano. Berlusconi did not give an example. Indeed. This proves a good leader today. I think it's come to an end. Likely that some of his loyalists to the ruling of the Court has leaped. May have to prepare for the loneliness, the fate of many good and bad leaders.


Alessandro Chelo
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Saturday, September 19, 2009

Cheat Pokemon Shiny Goldversion

Where did Mike Bongiorno


I have the honor to receive from your friend, the poet-manager, Stephen Cosulich, his last poems. I think they're the most beautiful he wrote. I have a choice and I offer it.


Where 's gone

He had to finish the warmth of the greeting

gestures for the greeting

and not for the account that must return

Where have all the handshakes

hot, strong and sincere

and the pleasure of beautiful atmospheres

now relate only with the keys of the keyboard

mirrored in egocentric monitor

without opinion

Sunday, September 13, 2009

Dragonball Z Bulma Doujinshi




E 'dead Mike Bongiorno.
His life was marked by some basic steps.
As a boy he joined the Resistance. He has never made a great pride, has never succumbed to the rhetoric.
Then chose the United States of America. There he met television.
Back in Italy, was the main architect of the birth and development of Italian television.
He realized that in view of Berlusconi with regard to private television, there was something very innovative and ingenious. And 'certainly was among the authors of the birth and development of the Fininvest group of which he served as Vice President.
He supported the Knights when he himself has chosen the political arena, as well as he could not hide his respect and sympathy for Walter Veltroni just when he chose to challenge Silvio Berlusconi at the helm of the country.
pushed aside by Mediaset, said his feelings of sorrow to transpire without the slightest hint of resentment and chose a new professional adventure with Sky, adventure that could not actually live.
E 'has often been criticized and even ridiculed by those who considered him a "pro-American," a man of the "system", a man too inexperienced to understand being a "slave" of Berlusconi.
Today, many discover that he left a free man.
The ultimate gift for Mike.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Where Can I Get The Cogat Test?

Joy and Sorrow


During my stay in Kenya I'm writing something that, if the publisher wants, it can become a book.
's a story made up of many short chapters. There
propose a choice a bit 'random.
The next day, in fact, came to the Shamba thirty people, drawn from nearby villages. Mostly women, but not all. This was the welcome party of the little baby Esther Faith in the community.
Babak Kadenge attended the ceremony alternating with a sense of curiosity to hear a quasi-tourist participation. The chorus alternates with phrases of good wishes that everyone could give to small and his mother. After the first gospel, the participation of Babak Kadenge turned into commotion, then they belong.
One person had particularly caught his eye during the ceremony. A young man from making a humble but not humble, good-looking. He had already seen several times, always sitting in front of his house with a roof of makuti in a shamba bordering Tisha's Farm: there, sitting and listening to nature and the love of his family, spent his days. He must have been between twenty-five and thirty years and only two had become blind. He came to Tisha's Farm in the company of her sister and having a long thin stick (fimbo), much longer than normal white using the white blind. Every now and then held him in half and used it as a stick "normal", so he could see for example the roughness of the soil or plants. But when the trail suddenly appeared more linear and smooth and the walk could be quicker, he held the stick to one end while the other was held by his sister that made its way. Babak Kadenge appreciated the sensitivity of the sister of the blind man did everything to feel self-brother, intervening only in the face of unforeseen barriers.
The blind man followed the ceremony with gentle zeal. During the choruses, but also between a sentence of greeting the other and even during the pauses of the speech of the priest, alone, with unparalleled peace of mind, always the same words: Asante Buana, Thank you Lord.
that impact so strong with the fall of humanity was difficult to stand up for Babak: I was overwhelmed.
After the chorus, Salome, sister of Florence, sat in the small arm, stood beside her the mother of the baby, Mamak Rogers. Both were covered with a colorful sarong from the rest of the participants the ceremony, in a circle, began to sing. There is always someone in silence next to you, while protecting the community seemed to say that rite.
choirs followed the intervention of the priest, the same that Babak had seen in action at the Mass the other day. He was also in this case, the spell broken, but perhaps it was only an impression of Babak.
Florence would later explained to the priest that Babak had words of appreciation for the name of the child. African names have a precise meaning. Mothers generally choose the name according to the feelings they feel during the pregnancy, the baby may be called by the name of love (Pendo) Gifts (Zawada), Fortuna (Bahati), Beauty (Karembo), Grace (Nehemiah), Hope (Tumaini), Peace (Amani), calf (Kadenge), but also problems (Shida) or difficulty (Tabu).
The priest explained how in the name of every child there is a piece of her destiny, as in the allocation of the name there is already a responsibility on the part of parents on construction of the life of the child. It 'a thesis a bit' naiff, but a certain appeal. While the priest preached his thesis on the names, Mama Esther nodded sitting in the background. Nodded with a special contribution, bringing to light how much it appreciated and share it that thesis, because he felt it. Year with a veil of sadness in the eye. The word "Tisha," the name of his young daughter who died prematurely after a long agony, in Swahili, means "suffering."